self compassion

A Lot of People Were Taught Emotional Suppression Instead of Emotional Intelligence

Many people grew up hearing things like: “You’re overreacting.” “Don’t feel that way.” “Calm down.” “You’re too sensitive.” These phrases usually were not meant to cause harm. But over time, they taught people something dangerous: That emotions should be suppressed, judged, ignored, or hidden. As a result, many adults now feel disconnected from their own […]